Evolving.
Published on September 22, 2004 By Angloesque In Home & Family
Hello ladies, have I got a good deal for you! I'm married to a nice, intelligent (brilliant, really), romantic, witty, wonderful guy. But he's got this problem that I, alas, can no longer deal with: He wears the ugliest shirts in the world.

I'm talking the throw-away-bin-at-Goodwill ugly. You know when your great uncle or some distant male relative died, and you hadn't the heart to throw out his shirts so you gave them to charity instead? Well, he bought 'em. Thanks a lot.

First, there's the one that is pink and brown ("peach! it's peach, not pink!" he says) with horizontal cream stripes. Then there's the Led Zeppelin-esque brown shirt (don't know how else to describe it, but you'd have to be on substances listening to Led to design anything like it), the animal print shirt (arguably okay but about three sizes too big), the western shirts (this on a man who despises everything cowboy), and assorted others, all in various shades of ugliness and all, alas, polyester.

Then there are the shirts he's been handed down from his buddies, or that he's pulled from lost and found bins. There's the yellow one that would make you throw up all over again if you were suffering from a hangover, or at least wear blinders. There's the "Bike Naked" shirt. There's the formerly black, now mainly faded dark purple shirt with a female icon (the kind you see on bathroom doors) in one frame, then two female icons next to each other, then a female-male-female frame, underneath running the words "good" "better" and "best" (you can guess which word is under the threesome, and let me tell you what ain't ever happening).

Finally, the straw that breaks the camel's back: H thought those Razor scooters were nifty. Being thrifty (no rhyme intended), he found one in a dumpster. And he still rides it. And he's not 12 like the only other kids who are riding them these days.

All of the things listed here he promised to throw away before we got married. We've been married three months now.

So, like I said: Slightly used husband for sale. Or else I'll pay you to take the shirts and run over the scooter.

-A.

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on Sep 22, 2004
What you do Angloesque is when he is at work or not looking ... you throw them all out and go buy him a whole new wardrobe that is to your liking.. and give the scooter to some poor kid down the road.
on Sep 22, 2004
Phoenixboi: The flaw in your plan is that he said HE would throw them out, so I promised that I would not. Now, technically, putting them in a box in the attic, say, isn't "throwing them out," and neither is letting someone come and get them, or sending them to someone else. Unfortunately he has wisened up to this fact and in a moment of weakness (my arm twisted behind my back at an odd and painful angle) I promised that I wouldn't do those things, either.

-A.
on Sep 22, 2004
Then you gotta buy him some new shirts.. slowly the old ones will fade out.. if you dont want him to know you brought them and he isw obsessed by "used" shirts... then just say you were given them or found them on the side of the road "off the back of a truck" style.. Honey you gotta get rid of the shirts!!
on Sep 23, 2004
I trust your judgement more than his on fashion. The trouble is, he does have nice, new shirts. And he doesn't wear them unless I tell him to. Grr. I don't want to dress him, but he shouldn't be allowed to dress himself.

He's already mad at me tonight for some stupid thing I did, so I might as well compound it by throwing them out anyway, right....?

-A.
on Sep 23, 2004
No dont throw him out ...just his shirts..especially the peach one! or try another tactic and tell him how sexy he looks in the nice new ones.. a way to a mans heart is through his ego..
on Sep 23, 2004
If he had an ego, he wouldn't be wearing these shirts.

And it's PINK, not peach!

-A.
on Sep 23, 2004
And it's PINK, not peach!


Pink unfortunately is in at the moment... I think it is very gay.. but everywhere I look .. men are wearing pink shirts... and today I saw the comeback of the white pants! What is the world coming to??
on Sep 23, 2004
White pants? I thought you weren't supposed to wear those after Labor Day.... I'm aghast.

Pink should never be in for men. Donald Turnip, er, Trump wears pink ties with his black suits, and for some reason it just draws a big pink line all the way up to his sneering mouth and, well, the hair.

I'm not particularly fond of pink for women, either, come to think of it. Fortunately, I can choose my own clothes, even if I'm not the epitome of fashion.

-A.
on Sep 23, 2004
White Pants Pink shirt... just doesnt do it for me. It's the advent of the metrosexual. Who im afraid should be all shot before they get out of hand. Bring back the bloke I say! Where have all the "real" men gone?? It's all a conspiracy to turn men gay..lol...
Well Angloesque the only thing left to do is burn all the shirts!
on Sep 23, 2004

you must formulate a plan to rid yourself of the shirts one by one. 


suggestion #1:
put on one of the shirts (i know it would pain you to do this)... when he comes home from work, meet him at the door with only the shirt on.  frantically tell him that he must make love to you.  encourage him to tear the shirt off...


one down, 9 to go

on Sep 23, 2004

suggestion #2:


'accidently' use one of the shirts as a rag when cleaning something up... like washing the wheels on your car...


2 down, 8 to go...


there are some brilliant people here at JU... surely they can help think of ways to systematically remove the shirts... just be careful.  your husband seems a bit shrewd.  you will have to spread out the wardrobe cleansing process. 

on Sep 23, 2004
Ha ha, imajinit, I knew you could help me out.

#3: Tell him a charity was making the rounds in the neighborhood, and since he, ahem, benefited so nicely from charity in getting those shirts, I was only returning the favor to the charity gods by returning them.

3 down, 7 to go....

You're right--there are brilliant people here. Hopefully some of them have faced this danger before and know how to thwart it.

-A.
on Sep 23, 2004
I don't see any reason why he would object to repeating #1 multiple times. I mean, I know that could easily get rid of many of my old shirts.

I will try to think of something else though.
on Sep 23, 2004
Don't put them in a box in the attic, just throw them up into a corner in the attic. That's not breaking your promise, and it's more than you can say for him if he promised to chuck them all already.

And just vanish 1 per week or something, so he won't notice until at least several of them are missing.

Of course, using one to strain motor oil or to wipe up a grease spill in the kitchen should get rid of it too, even if he does find it.
on Sep 23, 2004
You guys are funny. Much funnier and clever...er, yeah, cleverer than I am.

I think I'll give #1 a try and see how that goes. If it goes really well, he might volunteer to get rid of some of them.



-A.
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